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    May 4, 2013, 06:01 PM
    Lately my boyfriend wants to be blindfolded every time we have sex..
    Its making me feel ugly
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    May 4, 2013, 06:05 PM
    Has he stated why? Could it be he's into S&M of some kind or is this a fetish for him ?
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    May 4, 2013, 06:07 PM
    You ask to be blindfolded too.
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    May 4, 2013, 06:20 PM
    Have you tried asking him about it? Talking about it? There is no way for us to know.
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    May 4, 2013, 06:25 PM
    If you're comfortable enough to have sex with him, you should be comfortable enough to discuss this with him. If you can't, then I have to question your relationship, and how you could have sex with someone you can't even talk to about sexual things. So open your mouth and talk to him, ask him why this sudden blindfold fetish.
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    May 4, 2013, 06:28 PM
    Many reasons, a blind fold is often part of a fantisy, to think of others, or part of a bondage idea, many many couples do blindfolds or gloves and other items all the time,

    But you need to discuss why and how and what is expected from it.

    Others do role playing, dress up, wigs and more.
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    May 4, 2013, 07:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    many reasons, a blind fold is often part of a fantisy, to think of others, or part of a bondage idea, many many couples do blindfolds or gloves and other items all the time,

    But you need to discuss why and how and what is expected from it.

    others do role playing, dress up, wigs and more.
    Chuck, I told you that was private. Don't tell anyone else about our fantasies. ;)

    Blindfolds are actually a very common add on, even if you're not into bondage, or any other types of sex play. When you're wearing a blindfold you have to trust your partner completely. Every touch is unexpected, because you can't see what your partner is doing. It's like being blind. When you're blind your other senses are heightened. When you're blindfolded it's the same thing.

    It has nothing to do with how you look, it has everything to do with sensation.

    Still, you two need to talk, because you obviously aren't. If you can't talk about your sexual fantasies, or your needs and wants, then you have no relationship at all, not to mention a pretty bad sex life as well.

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