Or do most girls not like receiving oral sex?

My boyfriend has gone down on me twice, and both times it felt really good, but I get really embarrassed when he des it.
I have no problem going down on him, I just don't like when he does it to me. He keeps insisting I let him do it, and I keep turning him down. I feel as though he thinks I don't enjoy it, but I do, I just get self conscious.

How old are you?

I don't think it matters, but I'm 17.

It matters as we have many teens and pre-teens coming here for sexual advice, which in some areas is illegal under a certain age.

Now with that said... the embarrassment goes away with experience. Relaxation and enjoyment are the key factors here.

Now the more experienced you get, the less self-conscious you will be.

He enjoys it, and so will you after a while so let him have his fun, and keep enjoying it. Turn the lights off if you have to, or you can even... aw shucks, never mind, finding out is half the fun.

Haha, thank you all for your help, I still hope to get some more feedback!

Hello.

Just like anything new it takes time and experience. He needs to learn what makes you feel good just like you need to learn how to tell him what to do. That is as soon as you find out what it is hehhee.

A hint is let him do to you what you enjoy doing to yourself.

Good Luck
Dennis777

My ex girlfriend never let me go ddown there with anything hands,tongue other then my tool.I understood because she felt very weird no matter how many guys she had been with she just simply enjoyed intercourse and that was about it.nothing wrong with you just your boyfriend might not be so understanding and might take it as he's not good enough or something like that.Talk to him and make sure he understands that you would prefer other things and that he can still make you happy sexually in other ways.

My wife initially didn't want me to... and was quite resistant at first... till I gave her her first real orgasm. Now she doesn't hesitate to just jump on my face anytime the feeling strikes her.


Never knock something till you've given it the good ole college try.

I agree with smoothy. For many years my wife said NO to my going down on her. It took time before she would even let me lick her bellybutton. After some time she let me get down there. Then that was our fourplay. She would never do me. For years I've been dead but I would go down on her anytime she would snap her fingers. The more of an orgasm she has I know I'm doing my job, I enjoy making her happy and it's only protein.

:D

Haha.