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Stac33 · Apr 30, 2007, 08:49 AM

My husband and I had sex last night. Well, actually oral sex and like a half an hour later he wants to have sex. BUT... he couldn't get it completely hard and could not for the life of him. Is this normal?

EnglishRose · Apr 30, 2007, 09:16 AM

Yes, sometimes it just takes a little while to get over the last 'adventure'.

Stac33 · Apr 30, 2007, 11:58 AM

Originally Posted by EnglishRose

Yes, sometimes it just takes a little while to get over the last 'adventure'.

Well that's what I thought and I reminded him that we "just" did something. You think I shouldn't be worried. I know that cocks have a mind of their own and if they don't want to get hard, they won't.

EnglishRose · May 1, 2007, 06:59 AM

Lol exactly. If he just performed I wouldn't worry x

Stac33 · May 1, 2007, 07:09 AM

Originally Posted by EnglishRose

Lol exactly. If he just performed I wouldn't worry x

He is not usually wanting sex everyday. In fact, usually 2x per week is good for him, but since Friday he has wanted it everyday. It takes him forever to reach orgasm. Do you think tha is because we've been doing it so much? Sometimes it makes me feel as though he's maybe not that turned on. What do you think? And what's with the sudden interest in it everyday?

EnglishRose · May 1, 2007, 07:44 AM

That is an odd one. I think you would have to ask him about that. I know with past partners that doing it more made him finish a bit more quick if anything. Maybe he's been practicing some masturbation technic to make him last longer.

smoothy · May 1, 2007, 07:53 AM

Some guys just take longer to "recharge" than others. Maybe his time is an hour or more.

Stac33 · May 1, 2007, 12:32 PM

Originally Posted by EnglishRose

That is an odd one. I think you would have to ask him about that. I know with past partners that doing it more made him finish a bit quicker if anything. Maybe he's been practicing some masterbation technic to make him last longer.

You think what is odd? The fact that he wants it a lot or the fact that it is taking awhile? Last night it would be hard one minute and then go away a little and then be hard again. What's that all about? I think his body isn't used to this and he isn't giving himself enough time to recharge.
So you don't think the more a man does it the longer it takes? What happens when they haven't had sex in awhile?

smoothy · May 2, 2007, 04:55 AM

Key here is age, how old is he? I'm assuming he is young and just doesn't know his limits yet. The mind may be willing but the body just can't keep up. Me? I've learned what I can do and how long it will take. But then I've had a lot of years to learn that.

Stac33 · May 2, 2007, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by smoothy

Key here is age, how old is he? I'm assuming he is young and just doesn't know his limits yet. The mind may be willing but the body just can't keep up. Me? I've learned what I can do and how long it will take. But then I've had a lot of years to learn that.

He is 34 and so am I. Maybe he is just going through a horny phase. Not that I'm complaining.

smoothy · May 2, 2007, 11:49 AM

Well maybe he just needs longer. 20 minutes really isn't that long, I'll be he could be raring to go after about 45 - 60 minutes. 20 minutes is asking quite a lot for a man to be ready for round two. Not that it isn't possible, but it takes a mighty strong stimulation in that short of a time. Another case of the spirit is willing but the body isn't able.

bullet777 · Nov 15, 2008, 06:02 PM

Just a quick tip... the more YOU enjoy it, the more HE will.

Get into it so he knows you're getting off on him. There's nothing sexier.

Synnen · Nov 16, 2008, 11:17 AM

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