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    Aug 22, 2009, 01:56 PM
    My feelings.
    I am mortified to be writing this, but I'm desperate for guidance. I am a recently divorced 31-year-old mother of two teenaged daughters, aged thirteen and fifteen. My eldest sister's son, who is just a couple of years older than my two daughters, has recently started to make sexual advances towards me. Unfortunately I have to admit that I am rather flattered by his advances and have strongly considered having sexual intercourse with him. I of course intend being discreet and cautious to prevent any unnecessary mishaps. What's worrying me is what this will do to my relationship with my daughters and sister if they find out. Please help. I'm not sure how much longer I can withstand him.
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    Aug 22, 2009, 02:39 PM
    Incest? With your nephew?

    Please no.
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    #3

    Aug 22, 2009, 02:40 PM

    Your nephew?
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    #4

    Aug 22, 2009, 02:40 PM
    Would it be worth prison?
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    Aug 22, 2009, 02:42 PM

    Is this REALLY a sincere question?

    If so, the OP will need to post back in the next 24 hours, or I'm closing the thread.
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    #6

    Aug 22, 2009, 02:51 PM
    Has the markings of a troll - I'm with Synnen on this one.
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    #7

    Aug 22, 2009, 03:00 PM

    As my grandmother used to say, put a nickel between your knees, and hold it there.
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    Aug 22, 2009, 03:18 PM

    I am mortified to be writing this
    I can see why you would be mortified.

    How desperate are you that you feel compelled to even consider taking advantage of your nephew who you should think of as a son?

    Not only is this morally reprehensible but if your family did find out (because teenagers love to brag),you would lose the respect of your daughters and your sister would disown you.Not to mention it is wrong on all levels.

    What kind of a role model are you for your daughters if you are willing to have sex with an underage relative?

    You are 31 yr.old and you have yet to learn restraint?

    Do you jump into bed with every guy who shows a sexual interest in you?

    If you were my sister I would kick your butt and then press charges and then see to it that CPS was called.

    Shame on you!
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    Aug 22, 2009, 08:29 PM

    Uh, wow. This sounds suspiciously like the one from this morning that disappeared. She said her 14 year old daughter wants to have sex with her husband, the child's own father.
    Really.
    If you are THIS desperate for attention, seek out a psychiatrist.
    Again. Wow!
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    Aug 22, 2009, 08:35 PM

    Why you can't find any body else that you will take advantage of your nephew who you should think of as a son?

    Seems that you are sick you should go and see a consultant.
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    Aug 22, 2009, 09:14 PM
    If this is a true and sincere question, then I have only one thing to say to you.

    Don't do it.

    You're an adult, he's still virtually a child, and he's your nephew.

    Hopefully, you are not morally incapacitated and have the capacity to make a choice, regardless of your so called sexual feelings.

    Make the choice that involves integrity.
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    Aug 23, 2009, 11:31 AM

    Wow this is disturbing... if this is a real question then you are a sick sick person... If my sister wanted to sleep with my son I'm pretty sure I would be in jail for attempt (maybe successful). When I read this I read it again aloud to some of my coworkers to make sure I was processing it correctely... I am baffeled; he is your nephew! What do you not understand? Family is OFF limits!!
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    Aug 23, 2009, 01:30 PM

    It's been 24 hours. No response from the OP.

    Closed because this is now considered to be a troll post, and not serious.
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