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    Apr 3, 2008, 05:45 AM
    Difficult ejaculating
    We have decided to try for a baby. However, I feel my husband has difficulty ejaculating. In the past, after having sex, he would never ejaculate inside me, and he would always ejaculate with his own hand. Now that we have decided to try for a baby, he says he will try his best and try and put his mind to it to try and ejaculate in me. He says its no fun playing with his hand and only right at the end ejaculating in me.
    But after trying all sorts of positions and all sorts of foreplay he still can't get to 'come' in me.
    Does he have a problem? Is there something wrong with me that I can't get him to ejaculate in me?
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    Apr 3, 2008, 07:59 AM
    Sounds like he has a problem from the teens whereby that is one thing you never did was ejaculate inside your g/f. He has to get comfortable with the idea that it is acceptable now. Could be a visit to a sex therapist would do the trick, or maybe just a lot of practice !

    I always say that men are so used to masturbating and satisfying themselves comfortably that way that ordinary sex just doesn't do it for them because it isn't predictable. In other words, they have trouble being spontaneous.
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    Apr 3, 2008, 09:18 AM
    He can ejaculate into you; he just won't do it. As you said, he can bring himself to the point of ejaculating by hand, and then insert his penis into your vagina... but, "that is no fun".

    You have to ask yourself if he really wants to have children at all since he is totally uncooperative. You can't force him to do your wishes.
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    Apr 3, 2008, 11:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Choux
    He can ejaculate into you; he just won't do it. As you said, he can bring himself to the point of ejaculating by hand, and then insert his penis into your vagina.....but, "that is no fun".

    You have to ask yourself if he really wants to have children at all since he is totally uncooperative. You can't force him to do your wishes.

    Yes, he wasn't ready to have children, but he has agreed and he did say that he is not willing to try for a baby??

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