Hello everyone,
I sure hope someone can help me. I have been battling on what to do for a year now. So here is my story...

I am 25 years old. I am currently working in a Korean company where most of the employees are Korean. I am the youngest in the company. There is this guy that I have had a crush on for over a year now. I have always been a little too attentive to him. So I am pretty sure he knows that I like him. He has always told me that he is straight and have even said some things he has done. I believed him right until our first business trip together. We went out for drinks after our work was done. We were all kind of drunk by the time we got to the hotel. There were three of us so two of us had to share a bed. He and I shared a bed together. While I was trying to sleep, he kept moving his arms and body toward me. He started holding me and touching my body. I just thought he was one of those wigglers in bed so I just tried to go to sleep. Right until he put his hands in my underwear and started touching ( you know what). I was bewildered and it really caught me off balance. I was in shock and I just kept thinking of the most nonsexual women out there to me (oprah, hillary, martha) (yeah I know silly but true). We never talked about it the next day and I never talked about it because I really didn't know what to say. This happened again on another business trip and again I choked. He never said anything and I again didn't say anything. The thing is that I know he And some of his buddies visit these things called room salons ( karaoke bars where girls would entertain you and pour drinks for you) ( I even went to one with him so I can get over him, but I guess that's shot to sh*t). He keeps telling me that he is straight and talks about girls all the time, but I just keep remembering those 2 times. He even kissed me while I was "sleeping." what is going on? People have said that he might think of me like a little brother but brothers don't touch each other you know. Also when we are on our cigarette break together he is always touching my belly and shaking it (yes I am a little chubby). But do straight guys do that? He drinks with his pinky up and even laughs with his hands covering mouth like many Asian women do. He does have an older sister so I guess that is a habbit he got from her though. We haven't gone on a business trip for a while now and the incidents happened a while ago. I have been tormenting myself over this and I really don't know what to do. Someone out there please please help me. Is he gay? And if he is how should I approach him about it especially because it was a while ago. Please help~!! I would greatly appreciate it.

He is the only one who can tell you whether he is gay and it seems he is denying it.

You are well within your rights to attempt to discuss the incidents with him, but I don't think you are going to get an answer even close to the truth. I wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't remember or claims to have been asleep.

I think you would do well to leave him alone and find someone who isn't as mixed up as your co-worker seems to be.