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    Jul 19, 2010, 04:30 AM
    Change in Pregnant Girlfriend's Desire

    Hi All,
    I used to be very close to my friend from 3 years who used to share all her feelings with me.We sometimes used to kiss each other and discuss everything about sex.she got pregnant and from then on she is avoiding me she always talks only about her husband these days what is the reason and will she be back as previous once her delivery is over.

    Please give me a answer.
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    Jul 19, 2010, 05:43 AM

    I moved your question to its own thread so that you can get answers appropriate for your situation.

    Please supply more information.

    How old are both of you? What exactly is your relationship with her? Is she married and living with her husband? Is your relationship with her known to her husband?

    Apparently, your friend has been pushing the boundaries of her
    Marriage and now that she is pregnant is more interested in her family than a 'friendship' that is 'cheating' on her husband.

    IF she is married and living as husband and wife with her partner, then that is where her interests and emotional (not to mention sexual) investment should be.

    I think you should accept that her desires have changed and the intimacy you shared is not the same now. She needs to be a wife and mother and you need to let her.

    Live your own life and meet new people. Someday you will meet someone who is available to build a relationship with just like she has. Don't be so focused on her friendship you miss the person who is right for you.
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    Jul 19, 2010, 07:20 AM

    I second the age question and add: Are you a guy or a girl?

    Not that it particularly matters. You're wanting affections from this girl that should only belong to her husband. Of course she is talking about her family.

    Sorry you can't have your cake and eat it here. Be a friend, that's all you're going to get from her and that should be all you expect.

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