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    Mar 16, 2007, 11:19 AM
    I cant orgasm
    I have never had an orgasm during sex. I have to masturbate in order to orgasm. Im starting to think that something is maybe wrong with my health or something. Im really getting frustrated with this and I need some help.:( What would you suggest I do?
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    Mar 16, 2007, 11:22 AM
    Many women are only capable of clitoral orgasms. This does not make you any less of a woman, but you have to be a little more inventive when it comes to sex.
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    Mar 16, 2007, 01:14 PM
    I was the same way until I met my husband, that's why I married him. So don't worry and keep trying. Sometimes it comes later on with age. The best way is to make sure he knocks at the very back
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    Mar 16, 2007, 01:48 PM
    I married at twenty, I was dealing with fall out from crappy childhood, my guy was very patient, it took awhile but we got there in the end and it was wonderful.

    Simply relax and just enjoy yourself. We can enjoy the climb up the mountain without always having to reach the top.
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