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    lou1e Posts: 35, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 28, 2007, 08:04 AM
    Being naked
    Does anybody hate being naked in front of your man I'm on the vuluptious side but I'm not that big my problem is I had my son and now my belly hangs and I think it looks horrible I can walk around with my nickers / thong on but not without I love my partner and I no he loves me but I feel embaressed I have tried excercising but everything else tightens up but not my belly when we have sex it is great but I can't relax fully as I keep on thinking how does my belly look , does anybody have the same problem as me please give me some advice also it would be good to here from the men who are reading this , and give me your honest opiniun on what looks good naked ! Thank you x
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    Sep 28, 2007, 08:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lou1e
    does anybody hate being naked in front of your man im on the vuluptious side but im not that big my problem is i had my son and now my belly hangs and i think it looks horrible i can walk around with my nickers / thong on but not without i love my partner and i no he loves me but i feel embaressed i have tryed excercising but everything else tightens up but not my belly when we have sex it is great but i can't relax fully as i keep on thinking how does my belly look , does anybody have the same problem as me please give me some advice also it would be good to here from the men who are reading this , and give me your honest opiniun on what looks good naked ! thank you x
    Good is what you make of it. My lady doesn't have the tightest of bodies but when we are getting in bed or after some cuddling it doesn't matter. Now if she was just skipping around the house nude, it might not be as sexy. Make yourself sexy, I little stripping... tease him. Trust me he will love it. As for the belly... do you do crunches?
    And the bad boy in me says send pictures and I will judge! LOL
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    Sep 28, 2007, 08:49 AM
    How long ago did you have your son?
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    Sep 28, 2007, 11:48 AM
    3 years 9 months ago
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    Sep 28, 2007, 12:01 PM
    Keep up with it... it may take longer to get results than you think. But given it time. The further you have to go the longer it will take. But the results will be worth it both for you and your husband. He appears to be an understanding man so try not to be disheartened. Perhaps talk to a personal trainer, you may have simply chosen the wrong exercise or are doing it incorrectly. But don't stress out about it excessively. He still enjoys being with you and that speaks volumes.

    Coincidently my wife is a fitness fanatic, and its me that needs to lose a few pounds.
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    Sep 29, 2007, 01:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Gregisteredtrademark
    Good is what you make of it. My lady doesn't have the tightest of bodies but when we are getting in bed or after some cuddling it doesn't matter. Now if she was just skipping around the house nude, it might not be as sexy. make yourself sexy, I little stripping... tease him. Trust me he will love it. As for the belly... do you do crunches?
    And the bad boy in me says send pictures and I will judge! LOL
    hey you are a bad boy no pics I'm afraid haven't got any I will try and relax more so w can even better sex thanks 4 your reply it made me laugh x;) ;)
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    Sep 29, 2007, 01:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy
    Keep up with it...it may take longer to get results than you think. But given it time. The further you have to go the longer it will take. But the results will be worth it both for you and your husband. He appears to be an understanding man so try not to be disheartened. Perhaps talk to a personal trainer, you may have simply chosen the wrong exercise or are doing it incorrectly. But don't stress out about it excessively. He still enjoys being with you and that speaks volumes.

    Coincidently my wife is a fitness fanatic, and its me that needs to lose a few pounds.
    Thanks 4 your adivce I will try a bit harder on the exercise and c what happens:)
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    Sep 29, 2007, 01:28 AM
    I can empathize, really I can but this is my point...

    I think every woman, no matter their shape or size will have a flash of insecurity in the bedroom! Which personally for me makes it a bit easier and I feel I'm not alone!

    Try to not let it take over you, confidence is the key hun!
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    Sep 29, 2007, 02:38 AM
    That's so true thanks just got to say loving the name moomin!

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