Lots of ideas, have you tried bondage, spanking, blindfolds, role playing like Master/slave, Boss/secretary, Doctor/patient?
Get creative :)

Fill the tub with chocolate and... whipped crème.

Eww have you ever licked a melted Hershey's almond bar off a hairy man before? It seemed like a good idea at the time.

Read Cosmopolitan, there are many great ideas, and tricks in there.
Otherwise, just ask him. Ask him what feels good, and what turns him on.
Try different positions, in different places, wearing different outfits.
And see what works. But more importantly, have fun with it. If you're doing something that makes you uncomfortable just for your boyfriend's own pleasure, than it's not worth it. Find something new that works for the both of you.

Ok I'm dead serous on this. It's a little weird but I've never been accused of being normal. It's called monkey sex (I came up with that myself). I've only had one guy that was ever crazy enough to play it with me... man I miss him! Anyway both of you act like monkeys and make all the monkey noises. You can pick lice off each other, hang off the bed in different monkey positions, you can even jump on the bed if you want to. Oh yeah and the only rule is you can't talk, remember you're monkeys. Hey don't knock it till you've tried it! It's actually a lot of fun!

I'll stick with the chocolate, My wife is not hairy. We do play Tarzan/Jane , but cheetah ain't allowed.

Cheetah more fun than Tarzan, Jane would like cheetah! Tarzan would like cheetah Jane too!

MMMMMM Like I said earlier... We isn't in the first flush of youth, I don't think his heart would cope!! Thank you all for your ''input''... I am very grateful. I have tried new things in this relationship. My main problem... (not right wording, but) my 12 year old lives with me, so... I do have to consider his feelings... i.e. whether he can hear us!! OMG
:eek:

So good to hear you are concerned for your mans health,:rolleyes: and your child's... feelings.:D Send him out to play and take care of your man. He is more durable than you think.:eek:

If I read right you are in your 20 and 30's. You make it sound like you're in your late 60's,on Viagra and with a heart condition! Stop thinking like that! Sex is suppose to be fun, exciting and playful. I know your son must spend the night with family and friends sometimes, if not it's time he did. Girl open your mind, loosen up and have a F-ing good time... literally! I'm 42 years old and would still have the monkey sex if I could find someone who wasn't such a stick in the mud. Oh, speaking of mud...

Just because you aren't necessarily in your 20's or 30's doesn't mean you can't get wild.


This may just be me but I love oily sex. Especially after a very romantic massage and then your bodies slide against each other and it is very erotic and sexy. For me, it always feels the best when my breast are smashed against his chest or if my nipples are barely grazing his chest. Oil will make this feel even better. It's not exactly wild but I think you will both enjoy it.

Also, I've heard of (but never tried) getting something to tie around the both of you that way you don't really have a whole lot of room to move around. Of course let it have some slack but it makes the "simple positions" like missionary a little more entertaining.

I think I may have to try that. :D

Also it may be a good idea for you to buy two different sex books. You read one and him the other so it can be a surprise what you spring on him and visa versa. That should spice you up for a while.

Good luck!

Talking about mud... there is jelly wrestling :)
And what a nice way to die if you think his heart won't cope :)

So, any of this work?

Not into him dying, thanks but thank you for all your input... taking it all on board, bar the monkey!! He don't like me cummin on him because he is too hairy...

Yes, not just any of them, ALL of them, if you do it right :)

Humm... cucumbers, bananas, pop sickles, honey?

And if they don't work you still can eat them in bed :)

Watch some porn movies with him... find out what tickles your fancy so to speak. For example what works for my wife is the last thing either of us expected. That's a good way to find out stuff you might not think of. Trust me, you CAN keep the excitement in your sex life, I'm going on 17 years and its better now than when we first got married.

Nothing is more boring that the same thing, the same way year after year. That will explain many people running around on their spouses, or just not having sex more than a few times a month or year.

I could be hear all night suggesting things, its difficult without knowing what you do already. Maybe to challenge his DEVOUT hetro side, you could dress up as a man, strap on a dildo and get him to suck you off... just for a change !

I could be hear all night suggesting things, its difficult without knowing what you do already. Maybe to challenge his DEVOUT hetro side, you could dress up as a man, strap on a dildo and get him to suck you off, when you think you might have , you could flick natural yogurt in his face to add to the effect... just for a change !