My ex-girlfriend and I adopted a child two years ago and since that time she has refused to let me see the child. I have went to court and gotten a court order but she has refused to follow it. She has know accused me of using drugs among other things. She lies consistently. She has taken me to court at least six times for money despite the fact she she receives money from an adoption fund for the child. She has even quite her job. SHe has refused to get the child counseling for his special needs. At this point I just want to terminate my rights and move on. This situtation is making the child even more unstable because of her vengeance against me.