My son has been drinking since he was 16. His father died from alcohol. I have tried staying close to him as I want him to know that his family loves him. He has said many hurtful things and continues to drink. Right now he is not suppose to drink around his child when he sees her (he is divorced), but he takes that chance.. How do I draw the line. I cannot stand talking to him when he drinks. Even when he isn't drinking, he has been an alcoholic for years and it seems as though the effects of this disease have completely altered who he is. I don't know what to do anymore.