Well. For starters, I like to ask how old you are. The whole "is he the one for me" thing kind of sort of matters on the age. I'm not saying you have to be a certain age to find "the one", but it gives readers a perspective.
Second of all... of course, since the "chase" is no longer there, things are going to be lacking.
As far as the insecurity, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you... but it does mean that his insecurity will cause a problem in the relationship down the road. I'd say... try talking to him about it... but I know that it really doesn't help very often. The only thing that really works is counseling... or finding the root of his insecurity.
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