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shellbaby123 · Sep 20, 2007, 11:10 AM

Hello Everyone...
I am in a new relationship (4 months) and my boyfriend has been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. I am 36 and he is 43. Sometimes he has trouble obtaining an erection and other times he cannot maintain the erection during intercourse. His physician prescribed an oral medication to assist with this issue but it gives him severe headaches. As an alternative to penetration he performs orally on me when this happens (I have no complaints about this at all :D ). I am seeking suggestions on ways to reassure him that he does not disappoint me as well as suggestions for creative ways to make love (other than orally)so that our relationship does not suffer. This is a new relationship but I feel he may be the one for me and I want to be intimate with him without getting bored while considering his needs as well. Thank you.

ACAYEJ · Sep 20, 2007, 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by shellbaby123

Hello Everyone...
I am in a new relationship (4 months) and my boyfriend has been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. I am 36 and he is 43. Sometimes he has trouble obtaining an erection and other times he cannot maintain the erection during intercourse. His physician prescribed an oral medication to assist with this issue but it gives him severe headaches. As an alternative to penetration he performs orally on me when this happens (I have no complaints about this at all :D ). I am seeking suggestions on ways to reassure him that he does not disappoint me as well as suggestions for creative ways to make love (other than orally)so that our relationship does not suffer. This is a new relationship but I feel he may be the one for me and I want to be intimate with him without getting bored while considering his needs as well. Thank you.

Try role playing, it keeps up the enthusiaum, and you can always go back to petting, and relive your early sexual encouters...

KISS · Sep 20, 2007, 04:29 PM

With use the headaches will become more tolerable. Small amounts will help too. Don't use the 1 hour rule for Viagra or Levetra. Take them 5 hours away. Cialis probably is the least headache provoking and it continues to help up to days after taking it.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 20, 2007, 06:33 PM

Yes, Cialis causes the less headache, also he needs to watch his blood pressure level, certain brands can raise my pressure greatly.
But instead of taking a full pill, try 1/2 or 1/4 I find evern the 1/4 will nromally make the difference.

RustyFairmount · Sep 20, 2007, 06:57 PM

Viagra is a large enough pill to be split into smaller doses using a pill splitter. I have done that to avoid the flushing and headaches. Levitra is pretty tiny. I don't know about Cialis. Also, he shouldn't touch a drop of alcohol while medicated. Alcohol can contribute to ED.

As for reassurance, my wife has got me all figured out. She praises me for the things that I can do. She's enthusiastic when I do those other things for her in bed. She brags to her girlfriends about my oral skills, and tells me stories about how her girlfriends don't have it as good as she does. All of these things make me feel like I'm the greatest man on earth.

RustyFairmount · Sep 20, 2007, 07:01 PM

Oh. Yeah. My wife just told me to type this: She has me now take an herbal supplement called Argizyme. It's packaged by Biotics. You can find it online, or see a Chiropractor / Natural Healer. I get NO headaches, flushing, etc. But there's something that I do get... and it's as good as when I was 17.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 20, 2007, 07:04 PM

Since you are not selling it, why not include a link to it, although I hope I am better than I was a 17 ( not my best years) I would love to get it a try.

RustyFairmount · Sep 21, 2007, 04:02 PM

Sure. Here a link to Biotics, the company that makes Argizyme:
5-HTP to Argizyme - Biotics Research

I have purchased it from my chiropractor, and also from this site:
Argizyme™ -Biotics

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do your research, and consult you doctors (MD, holistic, etc.) before taking any product you hear about on the internet. I am not a doctor and not qualified to say whether it will be effective or safe for you. I can only tell you that it works very well for me.

It would be very interesting to hear back from you on what you decide, and how that decision works out for you.

Good luck