Originally Posted by
steve913
yeah i see your point there and i understand what you mean its not that i dont want to be there i mean i am fighting for paternity which i will be getting done soon but her and i do not want anything from each other and she does not want me to be there and not that i dont want to be but not to sound like a non wanting to be a father but i have moved on due to her past i do not see how i could look at her or the child the same no matter what dna shows does that make sense. she doesnt want me to pay child support just wants me to terminate my rights and i am in agreement with that as well.
Sorry man, but what she wants isn't so much a consideration here either. You are not allowed to voluntarily terminate your rights unless there is an adoption proceeding. Even if you were allowed to, it would not mitagate the child support that you would owe.
If she doesn't want support, she can send you the money back. You need to pay it if support is ordered though... because you do not want to trust her when she says "dont bother sending it... " because eventually she'll change her mind and you will still owe every penny of it and then some.