My boyfriend never initiates either
I know I'm not ugl or anything like that... but he's never "in the mood" or he's too tired or doesn't feel good. It was OK the first couple times he said it but now it's a problem. All he does by saying that is make me feel really bad about myself. He says sex isn't all a relationship is about which I agree but it does play a major role... I told him if he's bored he can sleep with someone else or we could have a threesome... but he just says no or he doesn't want to share me with anyone else... and how he only wants to be with me.. forver... but forever seems too long if I don't get sex. I was a virgin when I met him and I have been with him for 2 1/2 years... when we do have sex it is like the greatest thing ever... and I almost always orgasm and of course he always gets his. Its just that we never can get to the actual having sex part anymore... he just claims he has a problem buut doesn't want to talk about it... but we are both very open with what we like and what we don't and we have great communication but not when he's not in the mood... I feel like a guy constantly wanting it and he's like a girl... I just don't know what to do anymore.
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