[Rookie_Bee_39]

Im 13, and Im probably the only one in here over the age of 12 that hasnt made out with anyone. My boyfriend is 15, so hes been thru that, so he wants to make out with me, but everytime he tries, I back away, because I dont know what to do! Can anyone help me here?
:confused:

[casers]

First of all, don't listen to that other reply... you are too young to even consider doing that. If you aren't ready to do that with your boyfriend then don't. If your boyfriend doesn't like that you don't want to, then break up with him. You need someone to respect how you feel about things. Tell him how you feel, and he should stop, but if he keeps trying to make out with you, then break up with him. Make out with him when YOU ARE READY. Don't just do it because you know that would make HIM happy. You are only 13, there is plenty of time for you to prepare for it.

[missqueenb]

Oh my sweet marrissa!

Kudos to you for resisting your horny 15 year old b.f... continue to resist him until you feel the time is right, which will probably not be for another 5 years... trust me, I made the mistake of giving my precious virginity to a guy who was 17 when I was 12 because he pressured me... the outcome? I have a child out of wedlock, who is almost ten, I never got the opporitunity to go away to college like I dreamed, cause I had a baby to care for, ( even though I did finish school in my hometown, I have a bachelors degree in liberal arts) and not only if you give your body to him so early will you not know the real pleasures of making love, but you will just become a notch on his 15 year old belt... trust me, 15 year old boys don't fall in love, they fall in lust, and they tell everyone they encouner about him "poking" you... also, dear that bullshti that that dr. posted is a crock! Do not allow this little boy to get his rocks off by subjecting you to the humiliation of behaving like a young tramp just to satisfy his erection.. tell him if and since he can't wait for you to decide when you will allow him the "PLEASURE" of exploring your body, then he can go #uck a warm watermelon!! Do not let him take you innocence because he will not respect you the day after, and nor will you repsect yourself for lying down with him against you will!! save your virginity for someone who is worthy of your greatness!! not some little hot tailed boy whom you will not remember in 10 years!! stay sweet baby... missqueenb

[kissableteen]

Hey, I suggest that you wait. I waited to at least kiss a guy until I was almost 15. I am now 16 almost 17 and by making out you only make it worse. Each and every time it gets harder and harder to say no to sex when most of the time you really want it. So don't rush yourself it isn't worth it ;)

[Jahiem28]

HI 13 years old is too young to be having sex. I commend you for telling your boyfriend your not ready. First of all we live in a different world now. 35 years ago a young girl only fear was getting pregnant. Now they have to deal with AIDS. It does not matter how young or old you are once you get HIV(AIDS) you have it for life. Please go to school and get your education so you can live a wonderful life. Cause there is a lot you do not know when it comes to having sex. Take care GOOD LUCK

[siobhan]

I hadn't made out when I was 13, either! I didn't even start dating until I was nearly 17, and that's okay! The whole "making out" thing is overrated--until you feel ready, don't do it. Just say calmly and firmly to your boyfriend, "I don't want to do this." He should respect you and your person, and if he doesn't, then he isn't worth having around. Wait a few years! And later on, find a good guy (not one as forward as this one!) who'll be patient with you and "show you the ropes"--slowly.

[justjamestx]

Marissa,
You have your whole life ahead of you. So my advise to you is to learn the word NO!! Practice the NO word as often as you can. If you boyfriend presists, then tell him to talk to the hand, and don't let the door hit him on the way out. It is sad to hear the pressure that you have upon you so early, but what you must demand from boys is RESPECT!! So you set that boy striaght, and keep up the practice, for there will be more to follow. Just NO, NO,, NO, NO... and say it often.

Good Luck

[Meb]

Everyone here is commending you for pushing him away and immediately calling your boyfriend a horny predator but I didn't get that vibe from your post. If you want to try making out tell him you need him to teach you and show you how. Let him know that you are scared and that's why you're hesitating. Learning how can be a fun thing if you two are kind and open with each other.
You didn't mention sex, but... don't do it OK?

[watwat]

Love

I have one question to ask you if u sleep with him then what happens next? What guarantee do you have that he won't sleep with someone else?? you are only young once don't kill your innocense before its time... he isn't the only guy around there will be better guys as you grow older

[RubyPitbull]

Ummm. Uhhh. watwat, you have answered a posting that is over two years old. I doubt very much that she will see your answer.

[chuff]

So what do you ever think happened with this girl? Do you think she made out with that guy? I bet she didn't but has with someone else since then. What do you guys think?

[RubyPitbull]

My brain hurts too much today Chuff. I am having trouble planning dinner and that is starting to overwhelm me. So, I have no thoughts left for this question. Sorry... :D

[chuff]

What's for dinner?

[RubyPitbull]

Mmm. Couldn't deal with any heavy cooking today. Mmm pizza. Mmmm

[chuff]

mmm. Couldn't deal with any heavy cooking today. mmm pizza. mmmm

Mmm nice. Down here in Florida we have a chain called Hungry Howie's. Every Wednesday in central Florida it's "Wacky Wednesday" where they sell there large pizza's for only $4.99. In fact I'm on my way to pick one up in a couple minutes.

[RubyPitbull]

Heeheehee

[Soph_E]

Im 13, and Im probably the only one in here over the age of 12 that hasnt made out with anyone. My boyfriend is 15, so hes been thru that, so he wants to make out with me, but everytime he tries, I back away, because I dont know what to do! Can anyone help me here?
:confused:

I didn't make out with anyone until I was sixteen and I didn't ENJOY making out with anyone until I was almost 18.

I had the same mentality you do, feeling out of the loop and kind of weird about it... and that's why I kissed that loser when I was 16 because I didn't want to be the only one who hadn't made out with someone.

But the second guy. It came naturally and felt so right.

That's the only time you should do anything with someone. Be on your own schedule, no one else's.

[jasonpeace]

I can't believe that kids nowadays are just crazy!

[yasminjaylo]

wow! 5 years l8r @:^)

[Kitkat22]

wow! 5 years l8r @:^)

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