[sillysarahrocks]

I have the greatest boyfriend ever.He complements me every day and gives me everything I want.Im in sports,in chorus,fashion shows,and honors classes and he says Im perfect.We have been dating for almost four months but I am very insecure and jealous.We go to the same school and I know the people he has classes with because Im friends with most of them.There is one girl in his class that makes me very insecure.They have a lot in common and she's small.I am taller than him.He seems close to her and he kisses her on the forehead in front of me.It really bothered me.I am very insecure I feel like every day he is getting closer to her.My boyfriend and I met in class together while he was still going out with his girlfriend.We just talked as friends at first but apparently he has a crush on me.When they broke up he told me how he felt and we started going out.So I feel that's what's happening with that girl.I tell him He is the only one I want and he only says yay not you are also the only one I want.I dk should I be worried?What should I do?Also how do I stop being jealous and insecure.

[talaniman]

It seems his actions are what is making you feel the way you do, and kissing another girl in front of you is unacceptable. This is something to discuss with him.

He either respects you, or you leave.

[Enigma1999]

Hello Silly,

First of all, you sound like you are doing very well in school, so good for you! :)

If you have tried to talk to him about the "kissing" and he doesn't change, then you should really re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he respects and cares for you, then he won't do that! I can see him having female friends, No harm in that, but kissing, even on the forehead, doesn't sit well with me.

Also, people are going to do what they want to do... meaning, you can't stop it! So, instead of being this jealous person, use that negative energy and apply it towards more after school activities!

You are young, you will grow out of being insecure.

Try not to sweat the small things, what ever is meant to be will be.

I wish you luck!

[sillysarahrocks]

My boyfriend and I just reached six months and now we are starting to fight.That never used to happen.How do I keep the relationship alive and avoid fights?Also he sensitive for a guy so he needs lots of attention.

[talaniman]

Fights about what?

[RadioActive697]

You need to talk to him about you feel about him, her, and his actions. Kissing her at all is disrespect.