I got to love the way you shift everything on him, and make none of this your responsibility.
Personally, I think its lust, and nothing else. When that fades, or you stop making out, and giving it up, he will find someone who will, so I hope you have enjoyed your booty calls. That's all I can see.
Now his 'rule' was that if he doesn't sleep with the girl the first night he meets them he doesn't persist
Can't believe you fell for that line.