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Got Rejected from a friend and now she wants to be left alone
Hey everyone, I have been friends with this girl that I work with for a few months and when we first met we became friends because of her attraction to me. I just got out of a relationship so I made it clear to her that I wasn't ready to move on yet but when I am I hoped she was still there. Months went on and I was still mourning over the loss of my ex and always took it out on her by crying on her shoulder and still talking about my ex when she hung out with me. This past month I am over my ex completely and now have an attraction to my friend since I started feeling that way she decided to take some time away from me cause my actions and feelings have started to annoy her and seem to be pushing her away. Last week I told her that I am over my ex and that I have feelings for her. When she heard this she blew up on me saying that she doesn't feel like that for me anymore and might not ever again and said that I have been messing with her head in me showing her that I wanted to be friends but now want something more. She has friends that she has known for years and they are always asking her out and she never took time away from them so that's why this is weird. She continues to want time away from me and I am now accepting it. But if I am over my ex and done feeling down about everything how can I show her that I am a different person? She believes I am still the same as I was before and doesn't look like she will give me a chance. She tells me that she will talk to me when she is ready but she is a great friend and I miss her a lot so its hard to accept it. I know I have to give her space but is there a way I can show her that I am a different man and becomes friends again. If there is a chance to get her to like me again I would accept that but I would rather be friends than nothing at all. Please Help!
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