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    sinisterlovesbellababy Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 2, 2008, 11:10 AM
    Maybe pregnant and no ready so what do I do to get rid of it?
    My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex and she's supposed to have her period soon and she hasn't had it yet. If she is pregnant, we don't want to have a kid right now. How can we get rid of it on the down low... where can we go for a free abortion maybe or somhting in this topic?
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    Jan 2, 2008, 11:22 AM
    FREE?

    Probably not.

    Don't have unprotected sex if you don't want kids. Heck, don't have sex if you're not ready to have kids, since protection isn't fool-proof.

    Contact Planned Parenthood or a crisis pregnancy center in your area. They'll start by telling you (and her) your options.
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    Jan 2, 2008, 11:26 AM
    There is no such thing as a "free" abortion! One always pays, whether now or later. If not in money, then in mental anguish and guilt. There are many organizations that will help you and your girlfriend through her pregnancy, and then place the baby in a loving and caring family. Abortion should be your LAST resort, not your first.

    You can solve HALF of your problem, in future, by NOT having unprotected sex.
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    Jan 2, 2008, 07:26 PM
    There's always adoption You don't want to live with that guilt the rest of your life.. remember that's another little life your letting go of because you aren't ready for the responsibility.. and its not he/shes fault... theres other people that can't have kids that would be willing to care and love for that unborn child.
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    Jan 2, 2008, 07:55 PM
    I try to be open minded about abortion at least to some degree, but it just jumped out at me how you said, “get rid of it”. You were man enough to make this “it” be a man and pay for your own stupidity.
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    Jan 2, 2008, 08:01 PM
    Maybe you should have thought about "IT" before you jumped into bed.

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