Living together
Hi,
You and your boyfriend, fiancé, have a daughter? And were living together?
I am glad you are out of the hospital, and I do hope everything is OK, healthwise.
Your Mom is very concerned, and I think my Mom (now deceased), might have said the same thing. Mom's want they think "is best" for their children.
Did you and your finance ever talk about when you would be married? Did you ever tell your Mom you two have set a date?
If no to both, then your Mom probably thinks nothing is going to happen, except continue to live with him. She is trying to "make him" make a decision, of whether he will marry you or not. I think that's what she meant by telling him to "do right" with you.
I am not saying I agree with your Mom, but she does have a say, since she is your Mother, and some say much more than others!
I agree with rickj. Talk with your Mom, and more importantly, talk with your fiancé. Does he love you? Is he willing to set a date to marry? Are you going to continue living with this man forever, with no other plans?
This is what your Mom is worried about.
I do wish you the best, and please have a "heart-to-heart" talk with your fiancé.
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