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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:20 PM
    She is mad at me
    So I have been with my girlfriend and we hung out all last night till 5 in the morning with 10 other friends and we were having so much fun. But last night she started getting mad because I kissed her in front of her ex. I asked her before I kissed her if it was all right to kiss in front of her ex. So now she is pissed and doesn't want to talk to me or kiss me or anything what the heck should I do?
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:21 PM
    She sounds like she still likes the ex, and didn't want to make him mad by kissing you in front of him.

    I think you need to have a talk with her. If she still likes the ex, then you should tell her to go be with him. It is not fair to you, and it is not right for her to treat you this way over an ex that she is not with anymore.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:25 PM
    I apologize, but I do not give advice via PM

    PM from lifeisarock :

    but the thing is that I talked to her about it and she said she didn't want 2 make her x get mad at me should I believe that?
    It depends. What was their breakup situation? Who broke up with who? Was it on good terms?

    If they are broken up, I don't see why he would care who she kisses.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:30 PM
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    I don't know how 2 talk to you except this umm she broke up with him and she said before this that she didn't want 2 c him.
    To answer me, go to the bottom of this page and reply in the box that says "Answer this Question". That will put your reply in public. :)

    If she doesn't want to see him, I don't see why she would care what he thinks. After this kiss happened, did he look mad? If he looked like he was okay with it, I think she may be the one with the problem with it.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:32 PM
    yea but I just think that her x is my best friend and she is a little bit worried about that we aren't going to become friends anymore. And I know that my boyfriend likes her so I don't know what 2 do.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:34 PM
    If he is your best friend, I think he would probably tell you if he had a problem with it.

    Don't let a girl come between you and your best friend. I have gone through this with my best friend before, and let me tell you, the guy was out the door. I would never choose a man over my best friend. Luckily for me, my husband and my best friend get along. :p
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:36 PM
    Yea but the thing is though that me and her were friends way before we went out so I am really best friends with both of them. They are friends with each other but they just don't like each other dating other people. Like I know she doesn't like him she just gets jealous and stuff. I hate drama lol
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:38 PM
    I hate drama too :p

    Have the three of you had a talk about this yet? You all need to agree that this is okay so no one is angry or unhappy. You will feel much better about dating her if everyone is on the same page.

    She could be over-reacting about kissing you in front of him, and he may not even care. You will never know until you all talk about it. :)
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:40 PM
    Yea I talked 2 both of them about it they just don't really want to talk about it with each other . Umm so I know what they think but I just am so confused.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:41 PM
    Yeah I agree with nauticalstar. It does sound like she still likes her ex. If she was over her ex then she wouldn't mind you kissing her in front of him. You should probably leave her if she's going to be like that. Because if you don't... who knows... she may cheat on you with him or something
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:42 PM
    Can you give us some more information like
    1. How long were they together
    2.How long ago did they split
    3.Was their split ammicable
    4.Is your best friend OK with you 2 going out

    And any other info you might think is relevant
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:42 PM
    They need to talk about it. The way they are acting is putting you in an uncomfortable situation. I can honestly understand why you are confused.

    What did they say when you talked to both of them? Did they say they were okay with it? If so, I would say you have nothing to worry about.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:45 PM
    Yea they both said they are all right with it they just but don't like each other and I know that now I just talked to her a second ago. And my boyfriend said that he doesn't like her. But she still says she won't kiss in front of him I don't know why I need girl advice
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:46 PM
    Umm they were going out 4 2 months my best friend is fine with it and they broke up about a year ago and my best friend is going to probably ask out this girl this week.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:46 PM
    If your with her now then you two should be able to kiss when ever you want to. It shouldn't bother her that her ex is there. Unless of course... she still likes him or if he's really violent and would get too upset and try to hurt someone.
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:48 PM
    Yea I'm a little bit afraid of him hurting her. I really have been keeping an eye out on her. She is really getting a little bit afraid and I have told him 2 back off or I'm going to really hurt him. He knows I can beat him up I'm just really worried cause a lot of her ex boyfriends were really mean. I am not like that at all
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lifeisarock
    yea they both said they are alright with it they just but don't like each other and i know that now i just talked to her a second ago. and my bf said that he doesn't like her. but she still says she won't kiss infront of him idk y i need gurl advice
    I agree with kt1205, I don't see why it would bother her if they are over each other. Seems like there are issues here. Did you ever ask her why she won't kiss you in front of him?
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:50 PM
    yea she said that she doesn't want to get him mad and he really doesn't like me dating his x I asked him before I asked her out but now he is being really rude to her. She
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:50 PM
    Should I believe that?
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    Sep 3, 2007, 08:54 PM
    This whole situation sounds like it is leading to no good. It sounds like he still has her on some sort of "leash", and that is not good for you or her.

    In my opinion, I think you should get away from all of this madness.

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