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    Jun 14, 2005, 01:57 PM
    Kind vs Nice
    I have read women don't like "nice guys", but that being "kind" is OK.

    Can someone give me a few examples of some situations (think of a good example-situation) and tell me what would a "nice" guy do, and what would a "kind" guy do?
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    Jun 14, 2005, 07:35 PM
    NICE yak
    I'm a high school English teacher and I ask kids not to use nice at the beginning of the year. I say if I die this year and you guys say I was nice, I will rise from the grave and do something horrifying. Nice is boring, meaningless and lame. Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people. I'd like to meet that guy!
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    Jun 14, 2005, 11:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by turtlegirl
    Someone who is kind is sensitive and pays attention to another person's needs in terms of comfort, be it temperature, hunger, emotional state. Someone who is paying attention and acting to help people.
    Thanks for your reply. If that is considered "kind", then what is considered "nice" (as in "too kind"?)?
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    Jun 15, 2005, 12:12 PM
    Nice - is an KISSER, seeks approval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, tries to CONVINCE a gal to like him

    Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.
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    Jun 15, 2005, 02:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wildcat21
    Nice - is an KISSER, seeks aproval, buys effections, is needy-clingy, manipulative, trys to CONVINCE a gal to like him

    Kind is to do things because YOU want to and do not expect anything in return.
    Excellent, excellent!

    Thanks a lot... things are much clearer now.
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    Jun 16, 2005, 12:36 PM
    Nice - gets walked all over and doesn't even know it.
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    Jun 21, 2005, 07:51 AM
    Yup
    "Nice" men do things out of insecurity, a need to be liked. "Kind" men do things out of compassion and understanding, and the kindness is inherent -- they'd do the same for anybody in need, not just a hot woman.
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    Jun 21, 2005, 08:20 AM
    That was outstanding. Yes.
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    Jun 22, 2005, 09:53 AM
    Nice... I hate that word
    I swear I hate that word, I've been called nice by too many girls too many damnnn times. And with the girl I'm dating now, I'm trying not to be nice, but for someone reasons I find myself falling back into the nice guy thing and I know deep down if I keep it up, I'm probably going to lose her
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    Jun 22, 2005, 10:37 AM
    PeterJohn my man,

    Do yourself a LARGE favor and learn about 'nice guys'.

    PLEASE, if you can, buy David Deangelos book at:

    www.doubleyourdating.com


    AND sign up for his e-mail. He is the guru.


    Goto: www.askmen.com- READ ALL the dating articles. ALL!


    Goto: www.sosuave.com and READ everything!!

    Go to www.realtionships.blog-city.com - learn about WHY it's bad for business to be an -kissing nice guy.

    Get this part of your life in order. Woman HATE -kissers.
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