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ineedhelp132 · Oct 21, 2009, 12:45 PM

Hey, so.. last Friday my girlfriend (Of 6 months) Admitted to kissing another girl, She doesn't know how, it just happened, it is threatening our relationship. She has showed no signs of being lesbian or bi.

It wasn't a kiss on the cheek or anything like that, it was a full blown out of the blue kiss.

I love this girl, I'm trying to keep strong. She is unsure if she is a lesbian or not as we are both teenagers (16). I love this girl dearly and we have agreed to stay together.

This is troubling me because my girl is going through a rough spot and is confused about the kiss, questioning her sexuality, Help me out please.

Anyone have any experiences or answers for me! Thanks.

talaniman · Oct 21, 2009, 12:53 PM

Don't let this threaten your relationship, since it as confusing to her as it is to you. Let her work through her own feelings, and you support her with no pressure. I hope there was no alcohol, involved but things often happen that makes us think twice, be a good boy friend, and give her time, not jealousy.

artlady · Oct 21, 2009, 12:54 PM

She is questioning her sexual orientation and that is her issue.
You need to understand that many teens go through a similar questioning period.
You need to let her figure this out on her own.
There is really nothing you can do other than understand that this is normal teen behavior.

I wish · Oct 21, 2009, 01:13 PM

Give her some time and space so that she can figure it out first. It's something that she has to work out on her own, it's out of your control. In the long run, it's better for her to figure things out first, without pressure from you, instead of dragging out a relationship while sorting it out. Be considerate of her situation. Support her if that's what she needs, but try to do your own thing while giving her time and space.

Spyral1234 · Oct 21, 2009, 02:21 PM

If she was drunk as your 16 she probably was it impares your judgement , you might look at things as either gay bi or straight but there's a lot of inbetweens, ask her if she's still attracted to you? If she is thens she's probably in one of the inbetweens aslong as she doesn't go kissing more girls let her find out by her slef where she really stands