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    soccrplayr Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 7, 2011, 11:58 AM
    This girl I like won't forgive me?
    All right, so basically I really messed up with this girl I like. About two weeks ago, I was at college with my brother for new years and my crush was at a party I didn't go to. So I got super drunk and she knew I was when I texted her and I got so mad that she didn't want to talk to me that I said I would kill myself if she didn't talk to me. So next day I talk to one of her good friends and she says its best if I leave her alone but I really don't want to... we have science together next quarter and its going to be hard to just ignore her in class I guess. Anybody have any ideas as to what I should do to win her back? I know I messed up but what I said wasn't true and I just want to be friends with her again.
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    Jan 7, 2011, 12:10 PM

    Don't babble apologies and explanations. Actions speak louder than words. Be a normal, agreeable fellow student without constantly "pushing" in her direction. Treat her like anyone else in the science class. Pretend like she is no one in particular.

    Behave yourself in the future.
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    Jan 7, 2011, 05:41 PM

    Oh get over yourself, you screwed up, and now you are paying the consequences of your drunken behavior. If you are really sorry, you would straighten up your act, act like you have some sense, and put your best behavior on display. That also means not making yourself a pest just to be friends, after acting badly. You better leave her alone.
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    Jan 11, 2011, 07:07 PM
    Well, Tell her exactly what you told us... Well, Go more into detail, tell her you were a drunk fool that didn't know what was talking about. Tell her that you will never do it again (Assuming you won't) and tell her that your sorry if you hurt her or upset her in anyway because of your foolishness. Girls are suckers for a self-pitty party. ;) That's my advise to you, hope it helps. :D

    Comment on talaniman's post

    Ouch, Harsh. Lol

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