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    loke78 Posts: 8, Reputation: 2
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    Nov 20, 2009, 09:43 PM
    Why cant I visit my soon to be husband in jail now?
    I went to the hearing for my soon to be husband & tried to drop the criminal protective protective order but I had no success. My ex husband (im divorced) wanted my kids on the protective order & I wanted my name off it. I got a revised criminal protective order issued with my kids name on it. Then a week later I got a notice of termination saying all protective orders terminated fortwith. I went to visit my soon to be husband in jail & I was able to see him twice last week. When I scheduled a visit to see him this weekend, there was a note in the computer I can't see him. I am wondering why that happened. I am also wondering if I got him into trouble or if it will affect his sheriffs parole. Can you help me?
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    Nov 20, 2009, 10:20 PM

    Well perhaps the court has more common sense than you do?

    OK why was there a protective order, what threat was he to you or the kids.

    I would have to assume he was one since there was a order and you did not fight the order to protect the kids?

    So you want to marry someone who is a threat to your kids?
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    Nov 21, 2009, 08:19 AM

    He is in jail for false imprisonment, he never hit me or abused me. He was holding me down to talk to me & he was angry because when we had an argument I am stubborn & I don't want to listen sometimes to get my way. Plus I was on my period & was not thinking clearly & being a pain so I called the cops & exaggerated to the cops. You know how women are when they get their period. My ex-husband still thinks he can control me. He tries to ruin my happiness, he never likes the guys I date because I think he is jealous. He was jail for hitting me & being verbally abusive to me & ended it right away. My soon to be husband NEVER verbal abused me & shown violence at all being together. He has no criminal background before this incident. When he gets upset, if he feels he needs to leave to cool off he does & we always discussed things in a civilized manner. We go to church & strong with God. I overeacted big time on my part. If he hit me & abused, I don't even have to think about it & wouldn't get back with him, but he didn't. Thank you for your response.

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