[TeenInLove]

So I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm sure I'm in love with my best male friend every time I'm around him I feel like I'm in heaven and when I'm not around him I miss him terribly (That's mostly over the weekends). In last November I told him that I liked him, and he said he liked me only as a friend. I was crushed when I heard him say that but I mostly got over it and accepted the fact that he didn't like back. Now it's almost 2 months later and we have gotten closer as friends, we tell each other everything, we're more "touchy feely", and we share secrets that no one but us know. The fact that we do that makes me fall for him even more. I just need some advice on what to do now? I mean even our friends are trying to set us up and next week it might work out. So any advice you give me will be helpful.

[talaniman]

He told you he isn't interested in having a title of bf/gf, so stop acting like you are, and just be friends without all the touchy feely.

You play into what he wants, no titles but the benefits. You give him his cake, and allow him to eat it free, so what does that leave you with?

Him not having to give you a darn thing you want, while he takes what he wants.

NOT FAIR!! He is happy with the way it is, you are not.

[Homegirl 50]

Either just be friends or leave him alone. He made it clear he only wants friendship. Don't throw yourself at him, you will only get hurt.

[Fr_Chuck]

Assuming he is 13 ( your age) not a much older boy, that may be all he is interested in right now. Or he is not interested in any relationship other than light dating and friends.