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    Feb 7, 2009, 10:46 PM
    Threads merged, as there is no need to start another thread about the same subject.

    Sorry for the text talk I didn't know.. thanx for letting me know... well I still speak to my ex but I no longer have sex with him he is still with his girl.. n I think they doing good together.. its still hard thou to like see him online.. I try not to write to him but I still end up doing so anyway.. but I'm working on it.. I sent him a long email explaining myself and all my feelings but I don't really think he paid much attention to it.. o0 well rite thank you to everyone who gave advice...

    P.S thoSe who were commenting about me being pregnant or what not.. I ended up telling my mother she was pretty easy and laid back with the news expect for the fact that she gave me two options... it was either you leave the house and I get him(the father) arrested... or you have it aborted.. so umm she ended up taking me to get the abortion.. it hunts me everyday.. I am now 17 and about to grad. From hs in jun. thanks for everything ill keep everyone posted

    Wrote it as an answer before so I'm just placing it as a question now.. and removed the text talk.. sorry... so I dated my ex boyfriend for a year.. but broke up with him because I felt I was putting more into it then him.. I loved him then and love him even more now... we are super close friends known each other for 3 years now.. so he just started going out with this girl and says that he loves her but they only have 3 months going out... WHAT SHOULD I DO! I spend day and night thinking about him.. and we still mess so I know he doesn't love his girl like that... it's hard for me to let him go... should I? Or should I keep fighting for his love?
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    Feb 8, 2009, 12:30 AM

    Seems to me your wasting your time.
    we still mess so I know he doesn't love his girl like that... it's hard for me to let him go... should I? Or should I keep fighting for his love?
    He is playing you both and he still isn't that into you as you are him. Isn't that why you broke up before? Time to let go, and keep your dignity and self respect.
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    Feb 8, 2009, 06:59 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by bbros View Post
    well i still speak to my ex but i no longer have sex with him he is still with his girl..n i think they doing good together..
    ... ok, great.



    Quote Originally Posted by bbros View Post
    so i dated my ex boyfriend for a year..but broke up with him because i felt i was putting more into it then him..i loved him then and love him even more now...we are super close friends known each other for 3 years now..so he just started going out with this girl and says that he loves her but they only have 3 months going out...WHAT SHOULD I DO!! I spend day and night thinking about him..and we still mess so i know he doesn't love his girl like that... it's hard for me to let him go...should i? or should i keep fighting for his love?
    ... sorry what's going on??

    I thought that you had an abortion and no longer sleep with this guy, different ex?
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    Feb 8, 2009, 10:48 PM

    Yea it's a different guy.. sorry for the confusion.
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    Feb 9, 2009, 10:04 AM

    Ex's are ex's for a reason. Stay away. You are just being used. Sex with the ex happens and you can take it either of two ways

    a) oops! Moving along...

    b) obviously he has changed so much, I can now get into his pants with no commitment... wait a minute?

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