I need.
I am thinking of separating from my husband. We have been separating for 12 years and have 3 kids. Since we have been together since he does not like my mom I am not allowed to talk to her. I have no control over my money I am the bread winner and feel I should have some control. We have had some wonderful times. When we get along it is great everyone is happy. However when we start to get into a fight it gets way out of control. He has been arrested 3 times over the last 3 years for assault. The kids were never home when these things happened. My issue is now is I got a credit card and did not tell him, I spent 1400.00 again without telling him. Now he is scaring me he shredded my debit card and my credit card and said I better find a way to pay the money without using my check, I work 50+ hours a week as it is. He is so controlling, at the same time I am scared to be without him. If someone has some encouragement for me I really need it right now... Thanks
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