[Miss lovley]

A long distance relationship
Well kind of but noo

Okay here is the story

Guy 1
Im talking to this guy online and we have
Evolved our relationship to text messaging
But since we did that I hardly ever talk to him now
And I like him a lot but I'm scared to because I'm afraid
I'll get attached and hurt donno what to do about him:confused:
HELPPPPPP

Guy 2
I've known him for a year
And I've liked him ever since I laid my eyes on him
And I have done cute little things to let him know
That I like him so I'm sure he knows
Also my friends have had conversations with him about me
Okay so I put my feelings for him to the side because I wasn't sure
What was going to happen
Then today I ran into him and my feelings were no
Longer to the side and he has been on my mind since
He lives around the corner from me but we no longer
Go to the same school :(
I want to try to talk to him but I do not have his phone numbber
And when ever I go over to his street he is out but with all of his siblings
I'm really shy when it comes to him



WHAT DO I DO



I'm so confused about both of them

[peaceom]

Does guy1 live around you? If not I would just let it go. And its hard for me to say that cause my boyfriend lives 7hrs from me[but I've known him for about 4months now].. I manage to see him quite a bit actually. So if you see him I guess maybe go for it depending on how close[emotionally] you are.
If guy2 has msn add him or myspace even and just talk to him on there just be like "hey i havent talked to you in awhile how are things?"
And see what happens from there
Hope that helps some.

:]

[GlindaofOz]

I say forget the online guy he seems to be distracted at the moment.

How old is guy #2? Please don't tell me its another mid-20's guy. You kill Miss Lovely with the older boys :)

[RaineAndrews]

It isn't safe to meet people over the internet, and you can't "love" someone you just talk to on the internet. There is nothing but what he weaves for you to fall in love with.

[peaceom]

I'm sorry I have to disagree with you raine.. my aunt and uncle met over the internet and have been married for 5yrs+[and going on strong] as long as you eventually get to where you don't just talk online it could work out depending on how mature the both of you are.

[Homegirl 50]

I say leave the Internet guy alone. You don't really know him anyway and he is not intersted enough to call you.
The other guy you know. He's not too old for you is he?

[Miss lovley]

Guy 2 is 16er17 not sure so no I would say he is not too old and the internet guy is gone

[Homegirl 50]

Good girl

[Miss lovley]

I think I'm done with dating in general

[Fr_Chuck]

While of course people can meet over the interent, for every perfect love story ( I meet my wife online 10 years ago)
You will also find the stories of the married man who lies just to meet wormen to have sex with, or marrried women wanting a wild meeting.
While I found my wife, I also found some real nut cases also.

[Homegirl 50]

i think im done with dating in general

You're not going to miss out on much. Concentrate on school and keeping your head on straight. The right person will come along when you least expect.
You're a smart young lady. Wait for the right one, don't mess around with the riff-raff.

[Miss lovley]

Isn't messing with the riff raff part of being young?

[Homegirl 50]

isn't messing with the riff raff part of being young?

No. Messing with riff raff is not using your head. There are decent young men and then there's riff raff.

[mwilliams15]

Best advice I can give you.. Don't DATE IN HIGH SCHOOL! Its so not worth it. Im 19 and in my second year of college. I had a few long term relationships in high school and I regret it. You should be hanging out with your girl friends and having a good time!