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    malikarao Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 19, 2007, 01:10 AM
    In love with a married man
    Ever since I've been divorced I haven't opened up and let my heart go. I did this time and I've known he's married. I love him. It hurts. Is this right?
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    Aug 19, 2007, 01:33 AM
    No, it is not right and you know it.
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    Aug 19, 2007, 04:09 AM
    I agree with the answer above. It's not right or correct or any other thing that you would want to call it. When two people have made sacred vows to each other, no one should interfere.

    If having a relationship with someone is the thing after which you seek, then please go those places where you will find people who are single or divorced looking for the same kind of healthy relationship with others who are not already married.

    It takes a long time to really love someone in the deep, lasting sense.
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    Aug 19, 2007, 04:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by malikarao
    Ever since I've been divorced I haven't opened up and let my heart go. I did this time and I've known he's married. I love him. It hurts. Is this right?
    Your actually wasting your time with a married man. I myself could never date a married man, because I know if he did that to his wife he would do the same to me. I could never trust someone like that and they never usually leave their wife, they want their cake and eat it too.. YOu deserve better! It sounds like you have been hurt by a bad divorce, am I wrong too?
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    Aug 19, 2007, 04:28 PM
    Trying to feel better with a married man, to stroke your hurts is a dead end street, and you will be more miserable later. This is an awful choice, but, you know that already so change it.
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    Aug 19, 2007, 05:00 PM
    No it will never work, you will just end up with a dozen heart aches and most likely ruin another family. You will be the spare time, his wifew will get the good time, the holidays you will be the hurry I have to go home time.

    After he divorces and is single, then you date him, just tell him to call you after he has moved out, you will hear a dozen excuses.
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