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    sunshine636363 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 31, 2007, 04:04 PM
    I'm so depressed
    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. Going out with her have been the best days of my life, and I would do anything to have them back. After 7 months she started to act different, so one night I called her and told her why I am so sad and I got to the question if she even loves me anymore, and she said that she doesn't love me really anymore. This is killing me because I have no idea what I did wrong to make this happen. We both decided that if we went on break we could start over and be a loving couple again. When people in school ask how are relationship is, she would tell them "oh me and rees don't go out anymore, we are on break because he annoys me sometimes. The only thing I HAVE to know is how I could get her to love me again, and how to actually make the break work. I just need advice on how to do all of that. I would give anything to have it go back to the way it was before.
    Please help


    ~rees
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    May 31, 2007, 04:06 PM
    My dear, truth be told, there is nothing you can do but wait for her.
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    May 31, 2007, 07:32 PM
    I agree with Rockabilly1955mama. You let her know how you feel... that is all that you can do.
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    Jun 2, 2007, 02:01 PM
    I'm sorry this is happening to you :( I would just tell her what you wrote here, and let her know how much she means to you. She'll come along soon, and if she doesn't, than she probably doesn't deserve someone as caring as you are anyway. Just an opinion, but if her feelings for you are gone I don't think that there's much you can do. Sorry, and the best of luck to you.
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    Jun 3, 2007, 06:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by sunshine636363
    me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. going out with her have been the best days of my life, and i would do anything to have them back. after 7 months she started to act different, so one night i called her and told her why i am so sad and i got to the question if she even loves me anymore, and she said that she doesnt love me really anymore. this is killing me because i have no idea what i did wrong to make this happen. we both decided that if we went on break we could start over and be a loving couple again. When people in school ask how are relationship is, she would tell them "oh me and rees dont go out anymore, we are on break because he annoys me sometimes. the only thing i HAVE to know is how i could get her to love me again, and how to actually make the break work. i just need advice on how to do all of that. i would give anything to have it go back to the way it was before.
    please help


    ~rees
    Show her you love her make her miss you let her call you instead of you calling let her feel what she has lost if that doesn't work then sorry she has given up she sounds like she has already given up but try any way do what you can if she doesn't respond well you can't do much you sound like she means the world to you but love doesn't come 1 side it has 2 come from both sides good luck
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