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    x0settx0 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 28, 2007, 11:49 AM
    Why haven't I moved on?
    I would never go back to my ex but yet I'm having a hard time moving on.What can I do?
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    Apr 28, 2007, 11:52 AM
    You don't have to get into another relationship immediately. Just have fun being single, become independent, and better yourself. The right man will come along eventually and you will know when it's time.
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    Apr 28, 2007, 12:29 PM
    Yeah it sucks, I know I'm going through it right now. The best thing to do is so the things you did before you met that person. Connect with your past self if you will. I remember before I met my Ex I was swimming and doing quite the opposite of what I did previously and I felt really good. Today for instance I'm going to go back to church and see how it is for me now that I've grown a bit and then after I'm going to run a little bit. Anything will help, just don't hang out in the room and sulk, I've done it, all it does it make it worse. Everyday for a while will be a battle of your will to either give in to the hurt or keep busy. Good Luck! :D
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    Apr 28, 2007, 01:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by x0settx0
    I would never go back to my ex but yet I'm having a hard time moving on.What can i do?
    Sounds like you need some kind of closure, make sure that anything in your house that will remind you and make you cry is well gone. Take care, love and peace anne x
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    Apr 28, 2007, 08:31 PM
    Give yourself a little mission, sumting challenging yet attainable, focus all your energy on it while on the watch out for a sumone new, make lots of frenz from the opposite sex and hang out, it will take your mind off your ex.
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    Apr 29, 2007, 07:20 AM
    Doing the things that make you happy and time, will change those feelings around. Focus on the things you enjoy and look for things you think you will like, and make new friends and get a hobby. Volunteer work is great to get you out of self, and brings a lot of personal satisfaction. Your single and free and the whole world is yours for the taking.
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    Apr 29, 2007, 08:08 AM
    Moving on is hard and not an instant process my friend. Takes time, patience and lot of WILL POWER. Put yourself above everything else. If you believe in God, then connect yourself with HIM. Trust me, what HE can give you, no one else can... my best therapy is to sit and talk it out with HIM or any power that you believe in... it has always helped me... it's the best way to get it out of your system... u will feel that energy flowing within you in minutes... keep doing it... BE STRONG... the more you show your vulnerabilities to people or yourself, the more u're going to remain unhappy about things around you. Each day is a new day... live it as if it's your last. Each one of us is born with limited lifetime... so why waste even a single minute that we could have made worthwhile... hope u get my point... u'll be fine.
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    Apr 29, 2007, 08:46 AM
    There have been some excellent threads on how to move on, things to do to help get over a relationship. Sharing them with you:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...kup-78597.html
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