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    miami30545 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 26, 2009, 10:55 AM
    Scared. Need an answer now!
    Hi . Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex three days after her period ended . And I came inside of her . Can she be pregnant ?
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    Apr 26, 2009, 11:06 AM
    Yes, that's how you get pregnant, by having unprotected sex. It can happen the first time you have unprotected sex or the 100th time, no one can predict that but a pregnancy test will confirm if she is or not.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 11:33 AM

    Yes it's possible. Now you get to play the waiting game and hope and pray that she gets her period.

    The question is, if she isn't pregnant will you learn from this and stop having unprotected sex?

    Do you realize that even with protection there's still a chance of pregnancy? No form of birth control is 100% effective, but it's better then no birth control.

    You wouldn't put a loaded gun to your head and fire, so why are you taking chances by having unprotected sex?

    Good luck.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 11:38 AM

    She can always get a blood test done. They are able to determine pregnancy from 7-12 days of the possible day of conception.

    Good luck to you.

    Hope this is just a pregnancy scare and scares you enough to put a condom on and for her to get on the pill.

    Be sex smart. Use contraception!

    Sarah
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    Apr 26, 2009, 02:26 PM

    Just to add to what the others have said, if this was very recent... within the last couple of days, she can get Plan B from her pharmacist, planned parenthood, or pregnancy center. She would need to do this right away as they should be started within 72 hours of the unprotected sex.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 02:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by miami30545 View Post
    scared. need an answer now!
    If the prospect of your girlfriend getting pregnant scares you then why are you having sexual intercourse in the first place and unprotected sexual intercourse at that??

    NO ONE should be engaging in sexual intercourse until they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child. If the prospect scares you, you aren't ready.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 02:53 PM

    Oh yeah, it's definitely possibly. But the second you guys had sex you signed an understood contract that you might produce something that could change your lives. If you're not ready to take care of a baby in any way then you're probably not ready for sex either.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 03:21 PM
    She is not pregnant, it was right after her period, but I know anything can be possible.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 03:24 PM
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    She is not pregnat, it was right after her period, but I know anything can be possible.
    Wrong!

    She could be pregnant, no one knows for sure yet.

    Do you know when she ovulated? Women can ovulate before, during, after, and anytime in between their periods.

    Guessing is not a good idea here.
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    Apr 27, 2009, 06:39 PM

    But it was three days after she stopped bleeding . And I heard sperm lives inside of u for like 5 days ? Is it possible ?
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    Apr 27, 2009, 06:46 PM

    Shoulve gotten a plan B! But umm may I ask how old are you?
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    Apr 27, 2009, 07:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by miami30545 View Post
    but it was three days after she stopped bleeding . and i heard sperm lives inside of u for like 5 days ? is it possible ?

    Sperm may live that long if she is close to when she ovulates... otherwise they die off fairly soon. If she tends to ovulate on the early side, then pregnancy is possible... if she ovulates later in her cycle, then she wouldn't get pregnant. The problem is many women do not know exactly when they ovulate and it can be an off cycle where ovulation occurs at an unusual time. You will just have to wait and see what happens when her next period is due at this point.
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    Apr 27, 2009, 08:10 PM

    Sorry, but there are babies out there when people had sex during the periods sometimes, for any sex rule there are expections and babies happen.

    Also no birth control method ( although they are good) are 100 percent, so anytime you have sex you risk being a parent
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    May 3, 2009, 08:40 AM

    I am 16 =( and now that we are waiting we are both still friendsss.. but she has another boyfriend now and we are really stuckk...
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    Jul 12, 2009, 07:44 PM

    One thing you do if she is pregnant since she is with another guy you make sure you get a paternity test before you sign on any lines.
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    Jul 13, 2009, 11:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by miami30545 View Post
    i am 16 =( and now that we are waiting we are both still friendsss..but she has another boyfriend now and we are really stuckk ...

    More than two months have now gone by. Is she pregnant or not? Have you learned your lesson about underage sex?
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