[CallMeBel]

I really hope she tells them today. And I hope they are as understanding as they can be in the situation and get heathcare for their daughter and her baby.

[CallMeBel]

My Grandmother was pregnant with my mother when she was 14. My mom had a pretty difficult life. Her mom was never around and partied a lot. If the choice is made to keep this baby; I hope she realizes she needs to become an adult and take responsibility. I have no doubt that it can be done. But man, will it be hard. I couldn't imagine being 18 and pregnant let alone 14.

[HistorianChick]

Oh honey, I hope you do tell your parents. We are ALL here to support you. Blessings...

[Justwantfair]

I told my parents by leaving out a Planned Parenthood number that my manager had given me, I was 17, scared and pregnant.

That wasn't really the way I wanted to tell her, but it did make it a whole lot easier.

[88sunflower]

You do it the way it works best for you. Just as long as it gets out there.

[briana00josh00]

Hey its briana I'm 14 in 9th grade I'm 4 months pregnant and I haven't told
My parents I was today but I was terrified I haven't seen a doctor or
Anything I'm scared for my baby and me I told my boyfriend and he is shocked
He says it would be better for us too just get rid of it but I want my baby I love
It I'm to young to be a mom and don't think I can take care of it

[ang8318]

First, you need to tell your parents, then get to a doctor. You should be taking prenatal vitamins, are you? If you do not think you can take care of your baby, have you thought about adoption? How do you know for sure you are pregnant? Have you taken a home test?

[danielnoahsmommy]

It's to late for an abortion. You should talk to your parents.. because soon enough they will know. They can help you make the right decision. You need prenatal care and proper nutrition. Do what is right for your baby. Give him/her a chance

[jjwoodhull]

After last night, I was really hoping that you would stick to your plan and tell your mother today. Like we already told you - you have to see a doctor immediately. You have options, but the more time that passes, the less options you will have.

Please tell your mother tonight. You need to face the reality of the situation. You are making yourself crazy because you are dreading telling her. Just get it over with. She loves you and she will help you make the right decision.

I'm glad that you at least told your boyfriend today. But now you have to tell your parents.

[jjwoodhull]

I know you didn't tell your mom this morning. Please tell her tonight.

[artlady]

Hey its briana I'm 14 in 9th grade I'm 4 months pregnant and I haven't told
My parents I was today but I was terrified I haven't seen a doctor or
Anything I'm scared for my baby and me I told my boyfriend and he is shocked
He says it would be better for us too just get rid of it but I want my baby I love
It I'm to young to be a mom and don't think I can take care of it

My dear,you need to start listening a little better to us here.
You can not have any medical treatment without parental consent.Number one.

Don't even listen to your BF right now.He is not someone who knows about babies and how you feel or anything.Hes a boy!

Talk to your mother!

Is she mean ? Does she love you? I bet she does.I am sure your mother will hug you.Then you can start to make the plans for the future.

You have put yourself in this place and now you have to be responsible.

Talk to Mom and Dad too and start to face up to what is happening here.This is not something you can put off any longer!

Please ,do it soon and thank-you so much for the update ,we were all very concerned about you and your family.

You need to tell your parents honey and know that we are all rooting for you :)



You may very well be past the point of having the option to terminate.

[briana00josh00]

Well I'm 14 and 4 months pregnant I never told anyone about it until today in the morning I
Told my mom and never felt better I put me and my baby in damger by not telling her
So today were going to the doctor now I think you should tell your mom to be safe because
If you are your going to need help with this tell me how it goes if you decide to tell her

{Editor's note: I moved this post to briana's own thread. It was unnecessary in the thread it was posted in. - <>}

[jjwoodhull]

Hey Briana... how are you doing today?

[artlady]

She was on a site giving help and said she told her Mom but I wonder why she did not come here to let us know.I hope she knows we are all very concerned about her and her family.
Here is the post.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ml#post1657529

[Tandah]

I agree with what is above, your parents are there to help you and they love you, mistakes happen.

[mommyoftwins200]

Your still a baby, what are you doing having sex at 14, I am going on 23 and a single mom of twins and am still scared to death about being a mom, its not easy at all.

[Kennym1986]

Hey I'm briana I'm 14 and 4 months pregnant nobody really knows
Not even my boyfriend I don't kno what to do I'm scared and alone

This will be very hard to do but you must tell your parents first, then seek prenatal care if you haven't already done so. If you think your boyfriend will freak out or leave you over this then I would worry about him last, but you must eventually tell him and if he abandons you then he was no good for you anyway, but maybe in the future you will meet someone better who will raise this child with you. Make sure you keep your parents close and involved in this though that is a must!

[christinacounci]

You engaged in a grown up act resulting in a grown up consequence, now you'll have to make a grown up decision. It isn't easy (I was there once, too) but you have a living human being inside your body. The baby won't wait around for you to take your time on what to do, the time to act is now.

[briana00josh00]

Hey I'm briana I'm 14 and 4 months pregnant nobody really knows
Not even my boyfriend I don't kno what to do I'm scared and alone

I haven't got online for a while now but I'm doing fine I've got an appoinment Tuesday and my mom
Is fine with it my entire family is happy and can't wait for my baby shower I'm still going to school
I want to thank everyone for helping me out on this site it helped me sooo much I can't wait to hold
My baby wish me luck! I'll come back and tell you how much my baby weighs! :') bye

[jjwoodhull]

I'm so glad to hear that your family is supporting you. I wish all the best for you and your baby.