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chartrand10 · Dec 3, 2007, 11:06 AM

I used to go out with this guy and he was relly nice and funny but we ended up braking up and he has a girlfriend and he's been flirting with me and trying to kiss me and.. he changed lately I was talking to him on msn (I want to be his friend) and he was telling me that he likes me and then I mentioned his girlfriend and he said he was just joking around with me... should I tell his girlfriend? I feel bad for her and I've heard its not just me he's been flirting with!
Has anyone else had this happen to them?:confused:

Bluerose · Dec 3, 2007, 11:26 AM

chartrand10,

I don't see any harm in flirting but if you disapprove then it's up to you to tell him to stop. If he does, all well and good, he can still be a friend. But if he doesn't, knowing how you feel, then he is not being a good friend. We need to be able to trust our friends, and if he doesn't listen to you then don't trust him. He's playing games with you.

mahal_kita9 · Dec 3, 2007, 01:16 PM

I hope you dump all feelings for him. If he's basically cheating on his ex with you, he's not the type to be looking at for a relationship. And if you know his girlfriend personally... yeah, I think you should tell her. If she's a stranger to you, then don't bother letting her know. It'll come off weird.
My friend has been in this same situation, and after a while, she realized how he wasn't even worth talking to. Guys like that only want all the girls they can get.
Seriously, don't even bother with him.