Originally Posted by
starbond
wtever u r saying its right.bt why everytime she hs to show me that she is happy in her family and sexual life.when i used to do sex with her she always used to say me u r satisfying me nicely.i m happy wt u.nw suddenly she realised wtever relation she hs with me its wrong?its been 3 years we r in relation.hw can i forget all those momments and time spent 2gether?
I want to say to man up and stop your whimpering but that won't help. As j_9 suggested, please take the extra moment to type out your words. Like You, are, has, how, whatever, now, and what not.
Treasure the memories and moments you had together. They're yours and no one can take them away. You had to have known that eventually this would all stop. You were in a relationship with a married woman, if she's not running off to leave him then she never will. You both enjoyed the time but several factors finally caught up with the relationship.
You have to realize that she has a LOT longer history with her husband. She has kids and a life. You were a bit of entertainment, emotionally and physically, and now for whatever reason she has ended it. Probably guilt or maybe she fell back in love with her husband.
It is over. Stop your whining and get over it.
There is several courses of action you can take.
1). Pine over her and try to win her back. You could expose the affair to her husband and end things. Though she will probably hate you for that.
2). Stop seeing her. Remember the good times. Move on. Find and available woman and start that life for yourself instead of looking in on it from the outside.
3). Be celibate. Make an altar to her in your closest. Do the entire crazy thing. You're borderline doing this now. This is mostly just a wake up call.
I am sorry for being caustic, but the sooner you realize it is over and time to move on the better for you both.
Good luck.