Originally Posted by
Ash123
Sounds like BAD timing.
I think you two are a tough match.
This might be love or it might be lust.
You speak of her in terms that do not seem totally connected - and she clearly likes a little space. I would not contact her for a while. If she contacts you, I would meet and discuss what worked and why the breaks....and make it clear you want to continue break if it still feels unresolved.
It's in HER court. Not yours.
If you get together, I'd say the reason for space is important.
She may not be ready man....
Hang in and rock on. Don't take it personally.
Thanks! Yea that's something she has mentioned is the timing was terrible.
I have to admit there is some lust there on both our parts lol
But honestly me being the age I am I have gone through this before.
It feels different but I have heard that and read that a thousand times so I kind
Of think maybe it always feels like this situation is different. I know me and her
Were friends first and during our relationship we developed a very close bond.
I spoke to my daughter about this yesterday and she said something interesting.
She said daddy she started acting weird after a while. I said what do you mean? She said
Well first she was coming over every other day then she started coming over less and
Less. She said to her it felt weird. I know in her previous relationship her ex had a
Daughter also but their relationship was rocky at best. My educated guess is cold feet.
The relationship got too serious too fast and she got cold feet. That's what I think but
Obviously I don't know for sure. I know I miss her and the last couple days seem to have
Gotten worst rather then better. I feel like such a wuss lol!