hi folks,
i had my last period on july 10th -13th ,then i didnt get my period at all,tthen on 18th aug i tried pregnancy test,it turned to be neg,i had my early symptoms,i was playing badmiton on 17th,then on 18th a few spots of pink colored started out,it was for 2 days,then on 3rd day it was almost like a good flow of blood but still in pink color,a little bit of lumps have also came out,but the 4th day it has been reduced,just a very small discharge of blood i have,i am just confused,do anyone have experienced it, help me out,i am waiting to be pregnant

J_9

Please read this thread.

To me it sounds as though you are having a period. If you have more questions after reading let me know.

J_9

I also need to know your age and if you have used any form of birth control. If you have, what kind and for how long?

geni

hi,
i am now 23years,got married for just 11months,i had all my pregnancy symptoms,pl,z do reply me,thanks,i want to become pregnant

J_9

Does hubby want a baby too? Very important question here. Think before answering.

You do not mention ANY form of birth control either in the past or the present. Some forms of b/c can make it hard to become pregnant for a short while. Let me know and we will go from there.

geni

yes,my hubby also loves to have a baby.I havent had any pills or birth conrol,for the past 4 months we decided to have baby,before that we had a restricted sex,so no birth controls been used

J_9

Okay, since you have NEVER used birth control that makes it easier.

You need to know when you ovulate. If you are serious about this you can buy an ovulation kit that will tell you when you ovulate.

Once you ovulate your egg only lives for approx 24 hours, counting 6 hours for sleep, you only have 18 hours left to get pregnant. Considering that we only have 18 hours per month it is amazing that we ever get pregnant.

Once you know your ovulation cycle, which is approximately 14 days after the first day of your last period, you should make love no more than every other day. The more you make love the lower his sperm count is. Also, it is imporatant that he wear boxers not briefs (this is a true story), avoid hot tubs and the like. Sperm have a very low tolerance for heat and will die if they get too hot.

It should be noted that sperm can live inside a woman for 3 -4 days, so you can begin making love before ovulation.


Just so you know, and don't get frustrated, it takes most couples 6 months to a year of trying before becoming pregnant.