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    swati nayak Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 17, 2012, 11:53 PM
    How to make your angry boyfriend happy?
    My boyfriend is angry upon me because he told one of our private moments to my ex boyfriend. When he knew about this he has become rude on me. We asked him many times to come back but he want me to make him happy. I want to make him happy but his rude words are hurting me a lot. I love him a lot. Please help me out.
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    Apr 18, 2012, 08:31 AM
    Not quite sure exactly how personal the "moment" you shared with your ex was, but I think you should look at this from your boyfriend's point of view. If you just told your ex you were having lunch with him this one time, then he's overreacting. If you confided in your ex about a sexual experience or something personal your boyfriend told you about himself, then I'd say you need to respect your boyfriend's privacy a little more.

    I think you should also look deeper into the real reason why he's angry. It might not have been what you said. He might be upset that you're still in contact with your ex. If that's the case, talk to him about boundaries. He does not have the right to tell you who you can and can't talk to. But you owe it to him to let him know exactly how close you are with your ex. If you guys are talking every night, it may be time to rethink your relationship.

    That being said, this is definitely a talk-it-out situation. Don't beg for him back just yet, just tell him you want to sit down and discuss what happened. Fall on your sword and apologize for offending him. If you really didn't do anything wrong and he's not willing to resolve this, it's his problem, not yours.

    Good luck!
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    Apr 18, 2012, 09:39 AM
    Most people like private moments to stay private. I'm not entirely sure what you have revealed to your ex boyfriend and why you are still in contact with him, but it seems that this really upset him. I know his words are probably hurting you, but you need to talk to him about everything that happened. Hopefully everything will work out when you two talk, good luck!
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    Apr 18, 2012, 10:22 AM
    First, cut complete contact with any of your ex. Next, his private life along with yours are private and if you have a confidant, then you need to make sure that it will stay sealed. Last, you have to talk to him about it, apologize truly and tell him you won't do it again. If he is not willing to let this go, then there will be no other option but to let him go.
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    Apr 22, 2012, 07:12 PM
    My boyfrnd is angry with me a lot . I just fully depressed for this I am understanding thai what I do for him . I really love him a lot lot lot
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    Apr 22, 2012, 07:33 PM
    First please stop using Text writing, it is not allowed on the site. Please use real english in the future.

    Next you have no business telling a ex anything about a current relationship, you current boyfriend has a right to be mad, Let him know you will not do it again and will not to talking to your ex any more.

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