Originally Posted by this8384
I'm sorry for the lack of compassion, but you need to hear the truth:
Kick his sorry butt out. 8 1/2 years or not, this guy's a deadbeat and not someone you're going to want your child around. He doesn't care now and odds are he's not going to care in the future. He got 2 other women pregnant and didn't want those kids; why would he suddenly become responsible and involved? You deserve so much better and so does your child! You are not garbage; stop letting him treat you that way!
Did you read the thread, they obviously DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER! I have been there and yes the father did come around and we are now in a awesome relationship and he is the best father ever, Not ALL men Are complete jerks!