Just to clarify, I am taking him to the court to put in a voluntary order of support. There have been no orders or court appearances. The mother is simply able to throw his non-support status iin my son's face and I know he should be paying. I want it on record for his protection.
My Dad has even bought brand new bunk beds for her other two children and she shows no appreciation. I feel sorry for her but she is verbally abusive in her telephone conversations to everyone in the house, including me. I won't have it. I'd like to get a joint or split custody order for him.