Hey, I have been married for 17 years and my hubby goes, it is no big deal, he is not going to pick one up because they do not want him they just want his dollar, that’s all, you making a big fuss over it will just cause him to do it behind your back. If you trust him let him go, it is really no biggy. Just an opinion happily married for 17 year and still going happily for the rest of our lives I hope