This guy sounds like a real jack , but he showed he was one before you married him and you did it any way.
When he is hurtful or does something that does not please you, tell him.
He would not be getting anymore blow jobs either. Stop acting like an unappreciated sex slave.
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just IMO frustrated. Stop allowing him to treat you like you're nothing. You are his wife and the mother of his kids.