Originally Posted by donf

I'm not so sure that they are married. QueenHughes, "this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with"

We had problems with my mother when we eloped. She wanted the marriage annulled. In any event, my mother wanted nothing to do with us. When our son was born, mom would sneak upstairs to the hospital nursery. She worked at the hospital.

The upside was that it simplified where we went for holiday dinners.

Based on your last comments, it sounds to me that his anger towards your mom is reasonable justified. Take the 2X4 of your choice and whack him over the head (metaphorically speaking). Once you have his undivided attention ask him why he believes that you violated his trust and go from there