Originally Posted by Wondergirl
There is certainly something going on with her, but I haven't a clue what it could be. How about the two of you finding a premarital counselor and work out some issues including this one. (The other issues can be the reason for making the appointments.) And do this sooner rather than later.
I have thought of that but she has made it clear to me already that she doesn't want to take any premarital counseling. Outside of the sex we both get along very well we don't have any issues and we compromise very well. It's just when it comes to the compassionate part of a relationship is where the only issues have come about.