Thanks for the replies.
I have done all this. We have talked it out for over a year now.

She still says nothing was wrong in our marriage.
She can't understand why she did it herself.
She never thought divorce would be a consequence.

Over the year, I keep finding out things she hasn't told me. Lies are still coming out.
And, now, it's come to the point where, anytime I even bring up the past, she gets upset, says I am torturing her and just punishing her.
Even though I am calm and collect, with a soft voice.

She says she just wants to forget about it, wants me to forgive her, and that we should just move on forward.

And that she wants peace.
She has even said that either I stop the questions, or I can leave, so we can be peaceful.

AM I wrong to want to know the truth?