I lost my son 5 years ago and right after he died he came to me and I know it was real, we talked and he told me that I would be with him soon , I told him it would have to wait until I was finished raising my 3 great nephews, Then 2 years later my nephews mom died and we were very close we had a pack that who ever died first would come back and let the other one know about my son (Tom) . well she came to me and it was very real I didn't know what she was wearing the day she died ,but when I saw her in my dreamit was a ugly red shirt and she would have never worn something like that. Well my sister told me later taht was what she was wearing because she had to borrow something to wear, but she did show me a sign that they were both happy and there was plenty of bright ligh shinning on her and on my son he was in the back groundI am a firm believer in the after life. Hold unto all of your dreams that is their way of talking to you. Smiel because they are smiling with you.