I wish debt was the problem....its the exact opposite. He has more money than he can spend and strippers and drugs are they only thing that he gets a rise off of. The problem is, when its him and I, most other days, we have a great time together and we do love each other. He tells me how much he loves me everyday, but he never wants to have sex and he spends lots of time at strip clubs. I am not sure what to do "in the meantime" or how I should react when he gets home....